YOUR WORDS ENCOURAGE OR DESTROY
I remember a time when I spoke to someone who felt as if they had failed in all their projects, because they focused more on the things that had not come out the way they had expected. Their voice and face showed their evident exhaustion. However, a few words of encouragement were enough to change the look in their eyes, which rose from the ground to look at me to see if my words were truly sincere. After a conversation that took only a few minutes, once again, their eyes were glowing.
A person like this does not need to be destroyed any more with your negative words. So, what helps a person? A few words of sincere gratitude and affirmation. That is how I was able to help this individual re-focus on their strengths and not their weaknesses.
Most people are absolutely great at talking about what’s wrong or negative, but few people are good at speaking about what is good and positive. Jesus Christ always spoke what was good, just, and true, he knew how to use his words to uplift those who had fallen. Jesus was even able to heal and deliver people with his words. God has given us the power to do the same, therefore, we need to follow the example Jesus set and lift those who are on the ground.
The Bible says:
What words do you frequently use with your spouse, children, your co-workers at school or at church? Do you edify or destroy with your words? Be careful with what you say, because you have the power to revive or kill someone’s dreams. You have the power of life and death in your mouth, if you watch your words, you will be watching your heart and your relationships with others.
Think about it:
Who can you encourage with your words?
What would your family or co-workers say about the way you express yourself?
