THE POWER OF YOUR WORDS
I know that these phrases are very poetic, but perhaps they remind us that we should endeavor to sustain a love language in our marriages and homes.
Most likely we won’t tell each other poems, but we can avoid aggressive language and use kind words that will cultivate respect, admiration, and love in the long run.
Nowadays, marriages and even sons and daughters at home are too familiarized with one another to the point they no longer respect nor admire each other. It is very important to form an atmosphere of respect and love in the family, because a family’s health determines the health of a city, a country, and the entire world. Everything starts at home.
Take advantage of every time you get to spend with your family, and enjoy it. Every day you get up, be grateful for the great blessing of being able to have a family, a husband, or a wife.
Do not take having a family lightly, for a family is a huge priority in life. It is with our families that we serve the Lord, that we accomplish our purpose and that we leave a legacy of excellence to our upcoming generations.
Speak well and wisely at home, because your children and spouse listen and learn from everything you say. Words are powerful, the Bible says, “The tongue can bring death or life; those who love to talk will reap the consequences” (Proverbs 18:21 NLT).
Words have the power to edify a family or destroy it. Many times, your words define what your spouse or children think about themselves; they determine the language and behavior at home and other places.
Therefore, be wise and watch your words. Use words that are kind, motivating and inspiring in order to sustain the strong tower you have built together with your spouse. Today, practice using kind words in your marriage and in your family.
Think about it:
How are your children learning to express themselves at home?
What can you tell your spouse, son, daughter or family member in order to maintain a healthy relationship with them?